In life, man is always asked to make choices. It is also necessary to know the good and identify our real desire for life.
The most difficult is when there are several options. Sometimes, having a single choice is easier than having several.
Fear of regret this decision is final. Thus, the time for deciding is shorter. Moreover, the situation frustrating.
Would you choose optimism or pessimism?
Some people are torn between the two and do not know where to focus their choices. These people believe that pessimism is positive insofar as it allows them to be careful.
Did you know that people could cause negative or pessimistic people to strengthen this feeling of fear, anxiety, defeatism, negativity which might prevent them from advancing.
These types of people could be a poison or a negative wave to positive people.
- Do you have a pessimistic view and live a life filled with failures, a life loser?
- Do you have an optimistic view of life and have a life filled with success, a winner of life?
Sure you still at this stage?
Do you differentiate those 2 words?
Are you still undecided?
Differentiate the two aspects together.
I Optimism
Optimism seems to be something desired by man. Those who "breathe" optimism are often observed.
By cons, those who spread gloom, panic and hysteria are seen as negative or harmful people.
People hire these people and see in them a sense of courage, bravery. In general, positive people are able to trace the well-being, happiness, satisfaction and are more likely to have a happy, successful, accurate and inspiring.
Those optimistic
· Look and are far-sighted
· Always keep in their minds the vision of the desired result.
This representation allows them to keep:
· All their energy
· Their smile
· Any motivation to have confidence in them.
Where have these premonitions that make them think they will fail, they say they have already passed other tests more difficult than that in their lives.
Moreover, they say they were able to overcome their earlier difficulties, why would they not able to face others.
In fact, they most likely reinterpret a demoralizing experience in a way that helps them learn and mature.
Optimists behave like those carefree and less dependent on others to build their happiness. They see no interest in controlling or influencing people. They do not need to do this!
People react positively to the optimistic side. These people can bring positive energy, a certain confidence. That is why in general, these individuals are used to easily carry enough people to them.
The latter have an interest in winning that is mutual.
Indeed, this universe, support, sense of solidarity prevailed. When times of stress are felt, the optimists maintain subjective and more easily their well-being than people who are less positive.
They persevere, struggle and not "let go" not the case. They are not one to give up so easily, they are also recognized by the virtue of patience they have.
Their optimistic view of the world can attract and influence those who are with them.
1) Such persons keep their cool
· To bad situations
· Face of difficult trials.
2) They see the difficulty
· As a challenge
· As a challenge.
3) They are fighting with all their strength even if they had to sacrifice.
The glimmers of hope optimists also predict better reactions
· In changing environments
· When unexpected tragedies.
4) Those positive and full of optimism are more opportunities than obstacles.
5) They are more successes than failures.
6) They see failure as a passenger behind and believe that its causes are confined to this event.
7) They focus on their problems positively.
In fact, they do this to find a solution to their problem.
8) They know how to adapt by turn of events positively or negatively. If they fall, they certainly will fall!
Even if they advance slowly, they are certain to approach gradually near their goal or dream of looking.
Those optimists have another advantage.
They are healthier and live longer.
Indeed, medical research has proven that simple pleasures and a positive attitude, can trigger an increase in the body's ability to fight against the disease.
II Pessimism
People who are pessimistic are more likely to give up when obstacles or difficulties arise. When the going gets tough, the pessimists are losing confidence in it, tend to devalue and building a bad image of them.
1) They tend to complain frequently.
2) They complain mostly unnecessary.
3) They are unable to distinguish their strengths.
4) They are fleeing the challenge and refuse to take or hold important responsibilities.
5) They are sad and do not smile often.
6) They are mostly stress and anxiety
7) They lose themselves in their project, they are experiencing some instability in their project, their desire.
8) They need others to make important decisions because they do not trust it.
9) They often have headaches.
In light of this article, you should know what "camp" you are, the winners or losers.
Hoping that this article made you choose and decide what is good for you, he'll have to act once the decision taken. This choice will affect your well-being, strengthening your self-confidence and a good image of you. Finally, for your personal development and that of others.
Reread this section often to see if you have a character of winning or losing and readjust the firing by correcting what is wrong.
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