We'll talk about a subject that will affect your confidence and your self-esteem.
A low self-esteem can hinder you know that when you communicate
Low self-esteem reduces the confidence of an individual.
The behavior of those who have low self-esteem
The reactions to it vary according to people familiar with this problem.
Some do not choose the right way out.
Often these individuals turn to alcohol, drugs to enhance their confidence in an artificial way. However, such behavior destroys self-esteem.
Those who do not have good self-esteem are very reluctant to face the approach given above:
* They do not dare approach a new group.
* They do not want to expose themselves to ridicule and be seen as people shy, nervous or ignorant.
* They would rather stay in their corner.
* People with low self-esteem, avoid mixing with others.
* They prefer to stay in the shadows, away from others.
* Nothing can be more futile, even dangerous.
No! The best way out of this mess is to build self-esteem, which is not easy.
This is not the solution!
You have very few alternatives.
However, to start living his life again under better circumstances, you must find a new place of work and you make new friends.
Indeed, it is much easier to talk with people who have no preconceived ideas about you, people who do not judge and have an objective view of you. This will not only benefit you but also for others.
You must realize you are not the only person to have strengths and weaknesses. You have the qualities and weaknesses. Moreover, if it is found, another person close to you suffers from the same flaws you have.
Get your act together!
Those who have good self-esteem, do not address their weaknesses or failures.
* Instead, they try to find out why they failed.
* They seek lessons can be learned from their experiences.
* They have the confidence to enter into a new group and consider themselves part of this group.
They positivent and not cross the
It is the impact of the power of positive thinking, and it is only reserved for those who have good self-esteem. Therefore, have the behavior of a positive person.
To do this, use your qualities, other strengths of your project.
Keep this event to find one time or another some weaknesses or flaws.
Everything you need is to refocus your priorities.
This will make it easy for you to regain your confidence.
However, nothing will change if you do not respect yourself.
It should be that you develop self-respect and that you work your self-persuasion.
Your self persuasion has decisive effect on your confidence and quality of your life.
If you think you do not have the necessary skills to solve problems, then you might lose
* Your urge to invest
* Your desire to succeed
* Your motivation to finally give up ....
However, it appears that you have less capacity, but you have faith in yourself, then you are a much better person than the negative person.
Other hand, you have more chance of success than the person defeatist and pessimistic.
The secret is that your self persuasion gives you the confidence to at least try.
Have you ever wondered why some students in class, they ask questions?
* Is it because others have understood all the issues discussed during a conference?
* Is it because they lack the confidence to ask a question?
Most often it is because of:
* Fear of making mistakes or
* The fear of asking questions that they deem twisted around.
These people do not want to look stupid, that's what stopped them.
In other words, they lack confidence in themselves.
There is only one way to improve this confidence is to start believing in yourself. Therefore self persuasion is so important.
Let's see some benefits of self persuasion
* It allows you to build your confidence.
* It allows you to shoot for the moon.
* It invades your mind away from negative and fear of failure.
* This is your best antidote that will prevent you from destroying you mentally and your ability to go straight to fail.
* Self Persuasion gives you the confidence to accept failure.
* It teaches you the importance of positive thinking.
* Finally, it gives students the assurance that they have nothing to lose.
Indeed, these types of people realize they have everything to gain by asking a question, even if they come to ask a stupid question.
Abraham Lincoln is a fine example of a man who believed in himself.
* He has lost all elections
* He went to the Senate and
* He eventually served as President.
He did not allow his failures in life and personal damage his self-belief. Had he done so, the history of the United States would have been different.
The advantage of those who have good self-esteem compared to other
These people have a certain edge compared to some:
Contrary to those who have low self-esteem, their colleagues they have a healthy self esteem.
* They dominate the discussions.
* They are sought by others for any information.
* They are also invited to meetings and other parties - all because their self-esteem gives them the confidence to open up before a group of strangers.
It's the same syndrome of students is reflected in the life of an individual who works well.
So if you want to influence your confidence and your self-esteem, you know now what you have to do.
Good luck!
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