Once you have gone through a break up with your girlfriend you may find you are having second thoughts. If you are the one that initiated the break up and your girlfriend wants you to take her back, what do you do? One option you have is to get your ex back on your terms.
So maybe your ex girlfriend has been calling you begging for you to take her back and it has been irritating you. If she keeps on, you may push her away so she will never have a chance to get you back. But what if you are having second thought about her and just may change your mind about it.
To get your ex back on your terms why not answer the phone that one time and tell your ex girlfriend that she is only making it worse for herself constantly trying to contact you. Explain to her that the both of you need time to yourselves to deal with your emotional pain and trying to discuss any further relationship issues right now will not work.Tell her to call you in a couple weeks to check back with you because you are not going to answer her calls now.
If she was smart she will not call for a couple weeks because she must realize you gave her a clue. If she calls in a couple weeks - and she will - see what she has to say. If you broke up with her because of something she did, you should expect an apology and let her know. If she wants you back bad enough she will comply.
If you are going to take her back make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. You broke up with her for a reason and if there is a chance this reason will come up again you would have wasted your time. You need to make sure she understands this and is able to make any changes necessary to make your relationship better.
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